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5 Fashion Items You Can Totally Still Wear in Your 40s

Your age shouldn’t stop you from dressing up!
5 Fashion Items You Can Totally Still Wear in Your 40s
IMAGE Donna Cuna-Pita
Your age shouldn’t stop you from dressing up!

I never really gave much thought to aging until it started to make its unmistakable presence felt in my mid-30s. Overnight, the freckles showed up to remind me of all my carefree "what-is-sunblock?" days. My body was holding on to fat more than it did in the past. The consequences of all my bad food choices were coming back to haunt me. When you’re in your 20s, you diet to look good, when you’re in your 30s and 40s, you eat better to stay alive! It all starts to get a whole lot more serious.

In the past, the state of your puson was a matter of life or death during swimsuit season. Now your blood sugar and blood pressure really do spell life or death. Suddenly, dressing up isn’t so much fun anymore. Life is serious. You lose touch with who you are because you get too busy with the kids, work, life. In the morning, you automatically reach for the comfiest (most boring) items in your closet because you think the fun has been had and it’s all downhill from here.

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I thought I had to tone down, too. I was always quite daring and vampy with my clothing—a little leg here, too much cleavage there. I was having fun. When I reached my mid-30s, I suddenly became more conscious about what a woman my age should and shouldn’t be wearing.

Moving on to life’s next chapters naturally call for changes in your life, including your wardrobe. Where slinky party dresses used to be now sit PTC-appropriate shift dresses. Don’t get me wrong, I love the timeless appeal of a well-made shift dress, but you see, I thought that along with the changes, I thought I had to tone myself down, too. Mellow down the carefree, I-don’t-care-what-you-think side of me. And that was a mistake. So many life events force a woman to re-evaluate herself—marriage, childbirth, motherhood, getting older, and along the way, we get confused and lose touch with who we are. Some things need to change, some things need to stay the same.

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Take everyone else out of the equation and just have yourself on the page. Who is this woman, independent of her family, friends, and job? What do you enjoy doing? What gives you joy? What makes you happy? What makes you feel good? Get in touch with yourself again. Have fun, make friends, and reacquaint yourself with your fab 40s self. I just recently made friends again with 43-year-old me and we’ve been having a blast dressing up! Here are five things I'm enjoying wearing all over again. 

Cropped Tops

Yes, I bid them farewell in my 30s, already too late a goodbye for most people, but I recently revisited them again because they go so well with my favorite high-waist trousers! If you wore them in the past with low-rise jeans or daisy dukes, reinvent them this time around with tailored pants or pleated A-line skirts. Chic and perfect for the summer months.

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PHOTO BY Donna Cuna-Pita

Bows  

I always thought bows were for giggly-eight-year-old-girls and their fluffy, pink birthday dresses, but in your 40s, they give a fun and feminine touch to simple outfits. They look especially well with streamlined cuts and monochromatic outfits.

PHOTO BY Donna Cuna-Pita
Print on Print on Print

There used to be so many rules on how to wear print but I say just have fun with them! As long as you and your friends don’t get nausea from your print combinations, then you’re good to go.

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PHOTO BY Donna Cuna-Pita

Shorts

I’m not talking about those short-shorts that are shorter than your underwear. I also don’t mean those baggy shorts that your husband can wear. I’m talking about high-waist, tailored shorts made from nice fabrics that look great with sneakers or low-heels. You can add a blazer and a bold belt for more polish.

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PHOTO BY Donna Cuna-Pita

Sexy Swimwear

Swimsuits are tricky no matter what your age is. You need to find the best cut for your body type and your lifestyle. I’ve found that for my body type, maillots with plunging necklines or high-waist bikinis work best. What do you love about your body? Highlight that area. Covering-up in a giant tee with your swimsuit underneath is sad. I’m so inspired by my sister because she’s plus-size and boy can she rock a plunging maillot! There’s nothing hotter than a woman who loves and celebrates herself. 

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PHOTO BY Donna Cuna-Pita

Whenever my friends and I get together, we always talk about how much time we wasted in our 20s and 30s complaining and worrying about our bodies. When we look at our old photos, we all looked great but we were all so insecure. Now, in my 40s, I am finally celebrating myself. With age comes acceptance, but more than that, there is deep appreciation for all that I was, am, and will be.

Embrace and celebrate who you are. Don’t be the one to hold yourself back. Strive to become that woman in her 70s who looks back at old photos of herself in her 40s and thinks, “Yep, I still got it.” The years may add or take away from your face and body, but the fire in you and your spirit, those are ageless.

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